My Story: From Fearful Chameleon to Authentic Heaven On Earth

For years, I lived as a chameleon, constantly adapting to meet the expectations of others. I felt like I was never enough. I believed that to be accepted and loved, I had to mold myself into what those around me wanted. While there were good times, the bad often impacted my emotions more, leaving me trying even harder to balance the teetering tower of to-dos.

My past marriage was a rollercoaster of highs and lows, with mounting tension in a power struggle that left me feeling confused, powerless, and emotionally drained. I desperately sought to please my ex-husband, my clients, and my friends, only to find myself battling feelings of inadequacy. I felt ill-equipped to confront my ex’s escalating intensity, which loomed over our relationship like an eclipsing dark cloud, casting a shadow of self-doubt over everything I thought I understood.

The pivotal moment came when I fled my home, not for the first time, but what would be the last time, clutching only my purse and wearing my pjs. With my bare foot on the gas pedal, I looked down at my unprotected, naked foot and asked myself, “When did THIS become my life?” It was the first time I truly saw how far I had strayed from who I was meant to be. That moment ignited a fierce desire for change and set me on a journey of self-discovery.

As I delved into who I truly was, I uncovered the power of my thoughts and actions to shape my reality. Embracing practices like meditation and mindfulness became vital in my healing journey. I learned to connect with and honor my body’s needs, discovering the intricacies of my health and personality. Through this process of reconnecting with my body, mind, and soul, I healed myself from chronic debilitating migraines. What once felt like a life-long burden has become a distant memory as I reclaim the vitality I thought was lost forever.

For so long, my desires had atrophied under the weight of repeatedly saying, 'It doesn’t matter,' leaving me disconnected from what I even wanted. But through my journey, I reclaimed them, flexing my inner creative muscles. I rediscovered the power of knowing what I truly need and desire, and fearlessly began pursuing how to get what I want.

Today, after continuing on this awakening of the soul, I wake up every morning in a loving home filled with warmth and laughter. My hours of the day find me surrounded by incredible people, including my amazing chef husband, who creates high-quality, homemade meals that tantalize my foodie soul. My life is a vibrant tapestry of joy, connection, and profound belonging. I once dreamed of a life where I was wealthy like Oprah and could have a personal chef preparing me healthy meals—and now, I’m living that dream.

As a coach, I now guide others to embrace their authenticity, lighting the path for their transformation. You, too, can change your life. By honoring your own dreams and desires, you reclaim your true self and create your own version of heaven on earth.

Are you ready to unlock your potential and navigate the path to your best life? Let’s embark on this journey together.